The Best Revenge Is Moving On & Letting Go

In life, we have many ups and downs, and there are times when people can be hurtful whether it be at work, in your family or friends, or in your love life.

They say revenge is a dish best served cold – however, we disagree with that. The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. The best revenge is not even holding on to any anger at all, the best revenge is moving on with your life and showing them that life is so much better after they’re gone.

It’s so easy to blame those that have wronged us and most people get so caught up in blaming that they continue to blame and sabotage their own life long after the person has gone from their life.

Most people hold on to the blame because it’s easier than moving on and it’s easier to have an excuse and a story of why they aren’t where they want to be. This gets them sympathy from others – the victim role gives them comfort and it is much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life.

However it is not and will never be a happy place to stay, those who take responsibility for their lives and are ready to move on and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom success and happiness.

Now – this does not mean there aren’t horrible people in the world that have done wrong by others, it is not condoning others behavior but rather taking back the power they have from you.

• When you are the one suffering long after they are gone who wins?
• Who wins if you move on forget about them?
• Who wins if you create the best life you could ever imagine?
• Who wins if you create a life full of success and abundance?

You do! YOU WIN!

Take back your power!

• Blame them but what they have done – yes – but don’t blame them for what you haven’t done.
• Blame them for what they have done – yes – but bless them for making you stronger, for making you better.
• Blame them but what they have done – yes –  but thank them for you showing you exactly what you don’t want.

Take back your power and rather be grateful for all the lessons it taught you, be grateful for all the strength it gave you.

And finally, you must know in your heart and trust that if they knew better – they would do better. What a blessing to be able to let go and move forward, to rise up, and shift all this new energy back into building your best life.

Repeat after me:

I AM stronger.

I AM forgiving them and moving forward.

I AM taking back my power.

Now say that every morning you wake up and throughout the day. What you speak about you bring about.

Don’t forget that rubies. Rise Up Beautiful You

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