Your Most Important Job As A Woman

You are responsible for your life and if you’re sitting around waiting on somebody to save you fix you to even help you – you are wasting your time.

 

Because only you have the power and responsibility to move your life forward and the sooner you get that the sooner your life gets into gear.

It does not matter where you come from or what your circumstances are right now. What matters is now this moment and your willingness to see this moment for what it is.

Accept it, forgive the past, take responsibility and move forward. Take control of your life.

And once you realise this you need to remember every day that you can’t give anything that you don’t have. You have to make sure you are full in order to give to others. You have to make sure that you are happy.

 

You have a right to be happy. Your happiness is what fuels you from the inside.

You have to take care of yourself in order to have the alignment and the power to take care of others at the capacity that you do. Because when you stop taking care of yourself, you get out of balance and you really forget how to take care of others.

You have to keep your own self full. That’s your most important job. Nothing else works if this is not done first.

 

Your real job as a woman is to work on yourself and to fill yourself up and keep your cup full so that you can do whatever else you need to do for your relationship, or your kids or your job.

It all starts with you. Keep yourself full. Because you only win you’re full. Everyone only wins when your full.

We as woman should not be afraid to look after ourselves and make sure that we are ok.

We should embrace it and considered a compliment if we are “FULL”.

We should not be afraid of honoring ourselves.

 

We need to stop thinking that it’s selfish to put yourself first.

You need to take care of you first, to keep you whole and healthy. And that doesn’t mean that you disregard everything and everyone.

Make sure your cup is full.

Then what comes out of the cup is for everyone, but, what’s in the cup is mine.

You have to take care of yourself in order to have the alignment and the power to take care of others at the capacity that you do.

Because it fills the well.

 

What we do as women takes so much energy, so much work from the heart, spirit and creativity that we had to be responsible enough to take care of ourselves first.

And if you don’t do you know what happens? Imbalance.

Imbalance comes and then we look to those around us and we make them responsible for our happiness.

We look to our kids, our men, our friends, our family and we start making them responsible for our happiness. We say “I’ve given all this up for you and you’ve got to make this right by me and you’re supposed to make me happy”.

 

Because we’ve lost our way on how to make ourselves happy. We have to learn to get more balance in each day.

When you are more fulfilled it works for everyone. And when you’re not it doesn’t.

It’s really that simple.

Then what comes out of the cup is for everyone, but, what’s in the cup is mine.

 

Rise Up Beautiful You

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2 thoughts on “Your Most Important Job As A Woman

  1. Felicia Peters says:

    Amazing…, thank you for these encouraging words, sometimes we as women forget our worth.
    Thank you for this amazing reminder “I am beautiful, I am strong and I can do anything”

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