Mar
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Have a sex bucket list, well you do now!
Everyone has sexual fantasies, it’s perfectly normal and even if you are the most adventurous when it comes to sex it’s highly unlikely that you have made it through every possible sexual scenario.
Regardless of that if you are looking to get a bit more experienced and reignite some passion why not sit down and write your sex bucket list. It’s just like a regular bucket list, but it forces you to think about what you really want to do in the bedroom. Cue imagination going WILD!
Going without sex
Not forever don’t worry, but maybe just for a week. Think of it as edging and being a little tease then when you are able to have sex again it makes it that much more exhilarating and powerful. Make sure to draw up some clear ground rules with your partner and give this little experiment an end date. This gives you a clear deadline and leaves room for flirting and enjoying each other’s company in another way.
Trying It Hands-Free
This requires just you on your own: a hand-free orgasm. You decide what actually counts as hand-free or if you are allowed to use a sex toy, a shower head to get off or simply fantasizing your way to an orgasm. The opportunities are endless. Make this happen by slipping into anything that makes you feel sexy – then do whatever you need to get off, otherwise here are a few tips…
Role-Play
Role-Play is the answer, especially if you are in a committed relationship and need to spice things up a little while staying faithful. Discuss this with your partner ahead of time and find out what your fantasies are. Have fun!
Have sex anywhere but in the bedroom
Everyone loves to have sex in bed, but once and a while it’s fun to switch things up. Have sex on the kitchen table, or against the front door, in your pool or anywhere your imagination takes you. Just do it, you’ll thank us later.
Adding a Third Member
Cue most guys fantasies – having a threesome. These might sound amazing but often they can be very risky for your relationship if you are your partner do not fully communicate with each other. Expectations and boundaries need to be discussed in length before fully committing to something like this. Also make sure it’s safe and COVID friendly.
Sex in a Public Place
This can often be very thrilling like having sex in the bathroom of your favourite bar or a department store dressing room. The could-get-caught risk makes everything so much more exciting. With that being said, it’s not cool to involve non-consenting strangers in your fantasy especially if you are doing it where someone could see you, hear you or even have to clean up after you so be respectful when fulfilling this bucket list fantasy. Due to COVID is probably better to aim for spots that feel public but don’t put other people at risk such as in your car in a deserted parking lot.
Having sex while someone watches
This isn’t for everyone, but some people love the idea of being put on show. This is really for the thrill seekers out there.
Experimenting with BDSM
Remember 50 Shades of Grey, now we are talking. There’s a dominant and submissive and depending on what you like to be will depend on what you do or have done to you. Chat with your partner about this as this can be quite a daunting step for some. Remember there are no rules and just to have fun with it, just always make sure both of you are happy and safe.
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Let us know in the comments below if you will be giving any of these a try to spice things up with your partner?
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Wow! Interesting article and I’m grateful for it. Me and hubby will be trying these especially hands free one, whowould say to 50 shades? BDSM here we come
I would definitely give a try on having a third person , 3 some would be interesting.
Thanks for the awesome tips, I’ll start marking off some things from this bucket list! 🤣
Just interesting tips, I will certainly give it a try.
Very interesting but I wouldn’t wanna add another person into my relationship to spice up things. That’s a no no
This is a very interesting topic, I really enjoyed the read. adding a third member is not for me but I would love to try role playing. Thank you for the tips.
Interesting read . I’ll talk to my partner nd see if he’s open in trying these tips..
I would like to try out role-playing, sex anywhere else but bedroom and for sure bdsm🤪
Definitely trying the list but not third party🤭thank you Ruby Box
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