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Have a sex bucket list, well you do now!
Everyone has sexual fantasies, it’s perfectly normal and even if you are the most adventurous when it comes to sex it’s highly unlikely that you have made it through every possible sexual scenario.
Regardless of that if you are looking to get a bit more experienced and reignite some passion why not sit down and write your sex bucket list. It’s just like a regular bucket list, but it forces you to think about what you really want to do in the bedroom. Cue imagination going WILD!
Going without sex
Not forever don’t worry, but maybe just for a week. Think of it as edging and being a little tease then when you are able to have sex again it makes it that much more exhilarating and powerful. Make sure to draw up some clear ground rules with your partner and give this little experiment an end date. This gives you a clear deadline and leaves room for flirting and enjoying each other’s company in another way.
Trying It Hands-Free
This requires just you on your own: a hand-free orgasm. You decide what actually counts as hand-free or if you are allowed to use a sex toy, a shower head to get off or simply fantasizing your way to an orgasm. The opportunities are endless. Make this happen by slipping into anything that makes you feel sexy – then do whatever you need to get off, otherwise here are a few tips…
Role-Play
Role-Play is the answer, especially if you are in a committed relationship and need to spice things up a little while staying faithful. Discuss this with your partner ahead of time and find out what your fantasies are. Have fun!
Have sex anywhere but in the bedroom
Everyone loves to have sex in bed, but once and a while it’s fun to switch things up. Have sex on the kitchen table, or against the front door, in your pool or anywhere your imagination takes you. Just do it, you’ll thank us later.
Adding a Third Member
Cue most guys fantasies – having a threesome. These might sound amazing but often they can be very risky for your relationship if you are your partner do not fully communicate with each other. Expectations and boundaries need to be discussed in length before fully committing to something like this. Also make sure it’s safe and COVID friendly.
Sex in a Public Place
This can often be very thrilling like having sex in the bathroom of your favourite bar or a department store dressing room. The could-get-caught risk makes everything so much more exciting. With that being said, it’s not cool to involve non-consenting strangers in your fantasy especially if you are doing it where someone could see you, hear you or even have to clean up after you so be respectful when fulfilling this bucket list fantasy. Due to COVID is probably better to aim for spots that feel public but don’t put other people at risk such as in your car in a deserted parking lot.
Having sex while someone watches
This isn’t for everyone, but some people love the idea of being put on show. This is really for the thrill seekers out there.
Experimenting with BDSM
Remember 50 Shades of Grey, now we are talking. There’s a dominant and submissive and depending on what you like to be will depend on what you do or have done to you. Chat with your partner about this as this can be quite a daunting step for some. Remember there are no rules and just to have fun with it, just always make sure both of you are happy and safe.
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Let us know in the comments below if you will be giving any of these a try to spice things up with your partner?
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Woooow I will definitely spice them up
Interested would love to try them
I will definitely try this my husband will be so excited I know he is very naughty
Going without sex is going to be a hard one for us. We normally skip a day or two but a week ohh no no its a lot.
We have sex everywhere in the house, even in public places. It’s wild and adventurous, the thought of being caught makes it more fun and interesting.
Will definitely try the role-play and BDSM, sounds like fun.
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Interesting indeed.. I just can’t wait to try them out
Yes I would love to try have one in a public space with Hubby e.g pretend to be sitting on his lap in a bar or club while doing a ‘did’
I will be giving these tips a try for sure😉 VERY INTERESTING INDEED 😈😇😍💘
Interesting list but third party is no no for me,I’ll stick to role play and BDSM
Ooh I love love love. Will communicate with my hubby and see what goes 😉 Thanks for the tips RubyBox.
Will speak to my partner about it
The naughtier the better… I have to try out experimenting with BDSM… I’ll have to talk to my partner about it 🤭
Interesting list with a few things I’ve wanted to try out with my husband but didn’t mention. He’s away traveling on work so when he returns the sessions are steamy so that counts as one of the bucket list things. Will definitely mention some of these to him & see what he thinks.