If He’s Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?

You meet a new man, you start chatting over the phone, perhaps you start going on a few dates.

All seems to be running pretty smoothly for once. So you begin to let your guard down. But all of a sudden his interest starts to wear off, and he slowly stops sending those good morning texts followed by only messaging you every second day and so on.

Leaving you to wonder what the deal is?

You are left analysing his behaviour day in day out, he becomes the topic of every conversation you have. Making you more invested in him, leaving you feeling baffled as to why he is not showing any signs of interest or effort anymore.

Men who tend to treat ladies in such a manner are often not interested in any kind of serious relationship but require a boost in their self-esteem. This is why it is extremely important that you know the difference between him playing and him chasing.

Here are 5 signs to tell if he is investing in you: 

1. He gets back to your texts and calls.
2. He suggests meeting up and actively tries scheduling dates.
3. He expresses a desire to go on real dates, rather than hanging out at his or your place.
4. He wants to get to know you rather than to jump into bed with you.
5. He doesn’t express the desire to be single.

Just remember that if someone wants to be in your life, they will make sure that they are. X