Pain will change you

Pain will change you.

The key is what you do in your times of pain.

We all have dreams that we want to accomplish, problems we’re hoping will turn around. Maybe it’s to see your family restored, lose some weight, break an addiction, or start your own business.

But sometimes, month after month, even year after year, we don’t see anything changing.

It’s easy to get discouraged and think: “This is never going to happen…This is as good as it gets…I’ll just learn to live with it…”

We all go through disappointments, setbacks, loss, but we need to remember that pain is a part of life, and It’s easy to get discouraged, even bitter.

The pain will change you. Heartache, loss, disappointments. They don’t leave you the same. The key is what you do in our times of pain.

Every painful time, even though you don’t like it, it’s developing something in you that can only be developed in the tough times.

Eventually, that will pass, and you’ll get through it, but you will be different.

In those tough times, when you are uncomfortable, you can easily let it overwhelm you, this is when we must remember; how the pain changes YOU is up to YOU.

You can come out bitter or you can come out better. “I may not like it, but I’m not a whiner, I’m a warrior, I know I can handle this.” – the mindset and what we do with the pain is always up to YOU.

Don’t complain about the pain, without the pain we couldn’t reach the fullness of our destinies. All of us experience pain, so don’t just go through it, grow through it.

The pain is not there to stop you, it’s there to prepare you, to increase you, to develop you.

Difficulties are a part of life.

Now quit telling yourself you can’t take it. You’re not weak, you are well able, and over time, the pain will pass.

You will give birth to new strength, a strength you never knew you had.

Just because it hasn’t happened yet, doesn’t mean that it’s not going to happen. The true mark of a champion is even though they go through pain, they keep moving forward.

There will always be forces trying to convince you to settle where you are.

Lack is not your destiny. Constantly struggling, barely getting by, is not the end of your story.

This is YOUR time. This is YOUR moment.

Shake off the doubt. Shake off the negativity.

You’re in the right place. You’re right on time.

Now all YOU’VE got to do is get in the right frame of mind. If you change your attitude you change your altitude. Read more here.

#RiseUpBeautifulYou

We want each of our rubies to know that when you learn to love yourself and you know that you are a strong, beautiful, unique, courageous and ambitious woman – there is nothing that can stop YOU.

The only thing you need to achieve anything you want is something you already have. YOU.

Extraordinary YOU.

Beautiful YOU.

 

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