Many of us who are single spend our days wondering when the perfect man will come into our lives and finally leave us feeling complete.

But truth is we are spending so many of our precious years trying to find our dream man when we should actually be living our best life.

According to relationship expert Sami Wunder, the harder you try to grasp happiness through finding a man, the more your self-esteem takes a dip.

Little do we realise that waiting for a man to come along in order to feel complete is actually postponing our happiness. Your desperate, urgent and unhappy vibe in fact pushes away the same men you desire to gravitate towards.

So what do you do about it?

You embrace the mindset of 'be happy now' and stop using your single status as an excuse to complain and stay unhappy. Your happiness was and will always be your own responsibility whether that is with or without a man.

Once you embrace this mindset you will start attracting the right people. So live your best life and remember being happy with yourself will attract that right high valued man.

Starting today, if you are one of those girls who are longing for a partner try the below:

  1. Live the best version of your life right now. Travel alone, eat that piece of cake, dance until midnight and then do it all over again when you meet your partner.
  2. Know that you are ALWAYS ENOUGH. A man does not and will never define who you are.
  3. Learn to love your own company, because at the end of the day you are the only person you have to live with for the rest of your life.

Give it ago, and watch magic unfold. x